Ha, so my birthday came and went. I had a great dinner with David, Mitch, Megan, and Erika. We went to Racine's and I guess the day passed without too much excitement. I got a call from dad, Aram, and a few facebook posts from random people I haven't talked to in forever. I guess I have to admit that I was disappointed that Fox didn't say anything but most importantly, neither did Kristin.
David and I wondered for the last couple days of whether she would remember or not. I guess she didn't. David wanted to call her today and say something sarcastic along the lines of "hey, have you looked at the calendar lately? Missed anything?" but I don't want him to. I don't want to hear her lame excuses of "Oh my god, I've been so busy doing absolutely nothing of importance, but I was busy." I guess in the end, this is where our friendship is.
If David and I forgot her birthday, we would never hear the end of it. But for some reason, it's completely ok for her to never call anyone back, and to forget everything. What I don't understand is that she remembered last year when her dad's death was more recent. I don't get it...how can you be so self-absorbed that you don't even remember one of your best friend's birthdays? I don't even know what to say to her when and if I get a phone call.
She complains that no one kept in touch with her or bothered to care about her but she's doing the same to her friends. She never returns phone calls, she doesn't bother herself with remembering anything about her friends. I don't even know how to even talk to her about this. I don't think she'd even care.
At this point I don't blame anyone for "forgetting" about her. She brought it upon herself. I guess this is the end of our friendship because I don't even see her calling me in the next month. I don't think she'll remember David's birthday and I'm sure as hell am not going to remind her.
David and I wondered for the last couple days of whether she would remember or not. I guess she didn't. David wanted to call her today and say something sarcastic along the lines of "hey, have you looked at the calendar lately? Missed anything?" but I don't want him to. I don't want to hear her lame excuses of "Oh my god, I've been so busy doing absolutely nothing of importance, but I was busy." I guess in the end, this is where our friendship is.
If David and I forgot her birthday, we would never hear the end of it. But for some reason, it's completely ok for her to never call anyone back, and to forget everything. What I don't understand is that she remembered last year when her dad's death was more recent. I don't get it...how can you be so self-absorbed that you don't even remember one of your best friend's birthdays? I don't even know what to say to her when and if I get a phone call.
She complains that no one kept in touch with her or bothered to care about her but she's doing the same to her friends. She never returns phone calls, she doesn't bother herself with remembering anything about her friends. I don't even know how to even talk to her about this. I don't think she'd even care.
At this point I don't blame anyone for "forgetting" about her. She brought it upon herself. I guess this is the end of our friendship because I don't even see her calling me in the next month. I don't think she'll remember David's birthday and I'm sure as hell am not going to remind her.
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